what valentines day is to me...

many people have different opinions on valentines day.

some (like mr popsie) are very much against it, as it has religion aspects to it. and it is as if we are honoring a Christian priest. i would agree with him, if the intention was for that.

in my opinon, the perception has altered since hallmark made it into a commercial benefit. so in honour of mr popsie's feelings, i will refer to it as v-day.

some would think it is an overrated holiday day. why should people show love on ONE day of the year? why not for the rest of the 364 days? especially when everything is double the price. roses, dinner, etc.

but this is my opinion.

v-day is a day to remind each other of the love you share. it is like an anniversary, where you celebrate being together for yet another year. or a birthday, where you are honored to have lived yet another year. so why not choose this day to express to your loved ones, of how special they are. that is if they are special .

then, comes the argument...why ONLY Feb 14.

let's be real. no one. in this world. has the stamina to put on a romantic act everyday. especially those who are not naturally romantic or just too bloody masochistic for their own good and thinks that being romantic is a sign of weakness.

and who needs the typical bunch of overpriced roses or box of chocolates or an expensive dinner. these ARE overrated ways to express love. if anything, this shows that the other person made no effort whatsoever. put aside price, these things are easy to come by on v-day. then again, i won't complain if i get these things...(i am a sell out)...

what about inexpensive ways:

1. little notes
2. sweet/funny/corny cards (come on...no one can be THAT a cheapskate and NOT get at LEAST a card)
3. a drive to somewhere nice (where you had your first date/kiss/etc. or somewhere to see the sunset)
4. a fun day at the themepark
5. having a drink at your favourite cafe

If you aren't sure what v-day means to your partner, you need to talk about it.
Share your attitudes, memories, expectations, and feelings about the day and what itrepresents to both of you.
Regardless of your current thoughts about v-day, there are ways to make the day special.

Remember that v-day isn't just about giving and receiving gifts. It is a time to reflect on your love for one one another.

look out for my next post...'what marriage is to me'...